时代在进步，你的爱情呢？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>当年QQ火了，成就了多少爱情？后来微信火了，拆散了多少婚姻？以前8毛钱一分钟的长途拼命打，现在500分钟免费通话，却不知道该打给谁？</p><p>现如今用上了充电五分钟的手机，却再也找不到那个通话两小时的人！以前车马很慢，一生只向一人奔去，如今飞机高铁，遇见很多人，却不知该走向谁。</p><p>QQ成了相册，微信成了支付，电话为了收快递，短信为了收验证码，网络成了寄托，听着别人的故事，感慨自己的人生！</p><p>有人用钟点房体验了别人的一生所爱，有人用半生的积蓄才娶到一生所爱，有人凭一张嘴就换来了幸福，有人用一颗真心换来了一生的教训。有人爱都没爱就已经睡够了，有人碰都没碰就已经爱疯了。</p><p>毕淑敏在她的《星光下的灵魂》里写道：“凡是自然的东西都是缓慢的。太阳一点点升起，一点点落下；花一朵朵开，一瓣瓣地落下；稻谷成熟，都慢得很。</p><p>那些急骤发生的自然变化，多是灾难，如火山喷发、飓风和暴雨。一个孩子要长大是很慢的，一个人睡觉，也是很慢的，从日落到日出，人才能休息过来。”</p><p>所以，不必着急慢慢来，饭一口一口地吃，书一页一页地看 ，对孩子一句句轻轻说话，和父母有一搭没一搭随意聊天，同爱人轻声暖语好好商量，随着日月星辰的起落，随着四季的节奏变化，慢慢来。</p><p>当稻谷成熟弯下了腰，我们也收获了沉甸甸的爱。不要用咆哮破坏了这种爱，也不要用急躁惊扰了孩子的成长，那等同于急剧发生的灾难，你得付出加倍的力气才能重获安宁。</p><p>万事万物都有它固有的节奏，你只需要顺应着节奏的变化，做好你该做的事情。就像日落后，等着星星闪烁，跟它道一句晚安后就去好好睡一觉吧，然后在清晨醒来，太阳还会对你露出笑脸。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240905153528front1_0_173446_FpqGLSa8AayTO3SlguxUvrYZ3UnW.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOWbvuS7rOaxn-Wwj-mFkummhg==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/93/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="3024" height="4032" 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说的好！！！ 发财哥 发表于 2024-9-5 15:41
说的很好，是自己写的吗？
咋了？你觉得这不是我个人写的？像网络爽文吗？ 图们江小酒馆 发表于 2024-9-5 15:37
只有当你越来越优秀，才能真正宽厚起来。你会原谅那些曾经的伤害，过往让你哭的人，你甚至会淡忘到想不起来 ...
同意这个。 旗袍美女好看 写的真好，很有文采，也很有思想和沉淀。
我是写不出来，所以觉得很厉害
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