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《道德经》中讲：天道无亲，常与善人。

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 人生在世，要懂与人为善，要懂得知恩图报。而面对不知感恩的人，绝不能帮！不知感恩的人，把你的好当成理所当然；不知感恩的人，甚至会做出恩将仇报的行为。善良有尺 ，忍让有度，别把善良给了不知感恩之人，别把忍让给了得寸进尺之人。</p><p>世上最可怕的人，并非言而无信，并非城府深沉，而是不知感恩。不知感恩的人，良知对于他们而言，如同空气一般。不知感恩的人，最可恶，忘恩负义的人，最卑鄙。</p><p>不知感恩的人，万万不能帮。给予的帮助越多，对自己造成的伤害越多。不知感恩的人，越是对他们好，越是不把你当成一回事，甚至还会反噬自己，最终害了自己！他们自身有难时，要求你帮助，当你有难时，却冷眼旁观，甚至会狠狠踩上一脚。</p><p>在他们心中，利益至上，感恩，良知皆抛之脑后。在他们心中，金钱为主，友情，爱情皆纸上谈兵。</p><p>有这样一个故事：从前，有一个人，家门口经常有一个乞丐在乞讨，他心生可怜，于是每次外出都会对这个乞丐进行施舍。</p><p>日复一日，年复一年，形成了习惯。</p><p>一日，这位男子外出没向乞丐施舍，却被乞丐拦截下来进行质问：&ldquo;为什么今天不给钱了？&rdquo;</p><p>男子说：&ldquo;我要准备结婚了，攒的钱准备娶媳妇，怕是以后不能给你了。&rdquo;</p><p>不料，乞丐听完却给了他一巴掌，还愤愤不平的说道：&ldquo;你竟然把给我的钱用来养老婆！&rdquo;</p><p>故事很荒诞，却也很真实，生活中这样的案例也比比皆是。不知感恩的人，人心不足，一次拒绝便忘却了你之前所有的好。甚至有时，你的示好，只会给自己招惹麻烦，带来危险。</p><p>对于不知感恩的人来说，你的帮助就是为自己埋雷，他们丝毫不会感激甚至会恩将仇报。不知感恩的人，绝不能帮，你的帮助就是在助纣为虐，你的良善就是在为虎作伥。</p><p>为人处世，需有原则。不知感恩的人，不能帮；不懂付出的人，不值得帮。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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