做好这些，你也是有城府的人。
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<p>1，别人想要你东西，你要是不愿意给，别眼巴巴的不敢拒绝，问他一句，你拿什么跟我交换，这叫以攻为守。</p><p>2、工作只是你的副业，你才是自己的主业。</p><p>3、工资10000，对亲戚说3000，对家人说8000，对同事说跟你差不多，这叫“瞒天过海”。</p><p>4、偶遇熟人，不要闲聊。</p><p>5、领导突然和你谈心，那不是想要做朋友，其实也就是想利用人情而免费利用起来，其他就不要想那么多了。</p><p>6、当你听到别人的负面评价时，不要急于反驳，而是先思考其背后的原因，有时候这会帮助你更全面地了解自己。</p><p>7、在与人交流时，不要急于表达自己的观点，先倾听对方的想法，这样不仅可以增进理解，还能使你的回应更加精准。</p><p>8、无论面对何种情况，都要保持冷静和理智，不要让情绪左右你的判断和决策。</p><p>9，在团队中，不要只关注自己的利益，也要关注团队的整体利益，这样才能赢得他人的尊重和信任。</p><p>10，对于别人的请求，不要一味地答应，而是要学会权衡利弊，做出最合理的选择。</p><p>11，当你需要拒绝别人时，不要直接拒绝，而是要用委婉的方式表达自己的立场，这样可以减少对方的尴尬和不满。</p><p>12，在与人合作时，不要只关注自己的贡献，也要看到他人的付出，这样才能建立良好的合作关系。</p><p>13、在工作中，不要只关注自己的任务，也要关注公司的整体目标和战略，这样才能更好地为公司创造价值。</p><p>14、当你遇到挫折和失败时，不要气馁和放弃，而是要从中吸取教训和经验，为下一次的挑战做好准备。</p><p>15、在与领导沟通时，不要只关注自己的需求，也要关注领导的想法和期望，这样才能更好地满足领导的要求。</p><p>16、在与同事相处时，不要只关注自己的利益，也要关心同事的困难和需求，这样才能建立良好的同事关系。</p><p>17、在处理问题时，不要只关注表面现象，也要深入探究其背后的原因和本质，这样才能找到根本的解决方案。</p><p>18、在做出决策时，不要只考虑自己的利益，也要考虑其他人的感受和利益，这样才能做出更加公正和合理的决策。</p><p>19、在与人交往时，要学会察言观色，从对方的言行举止中读取其真实意图和情绪状态。</p><p>20、在表达自己的观点时，要学会用恰当的语言和方式，以避免引起不必要的误解和冲突。</p><p>21、在面对压力和挑战时，要学会调整自己的心态和情绪，保持积极向上的态度。</p><p>22、在与他人竞争时，不要过于在意输赢和得失，而是要关注自己的成长和进步。</p><p>23、在处理人际关系时，要学会换位思考，从对方的角度去理解和感受问题。</p><p>24、在处理复杂问题时，要学会分解和简化问题，以便更好地找到解决方案。</p><p>25、在与陌生人交往时，要保持一定的警惕性和防范意识，以避免受到不必要的伤害。</p><p>26、在面对诱惑和欲望时，要学会控制自己的冲动和欲望，保持清醒的头脑和坚定的立场。</p><p>27、在处理重要事务时，要学会制定计划和时间表，以确保事情能够按时完成并达到预期的效果。</p><p>28、在与人合作时，要学会分配任务和明确责任，以确保工作的顺利进行和完成。</p><p>29、在处理冲突和纠纷时，要学会冷静分析和公正判断，以避免情绪化和偏激化的行为。</p><p>30、在与长辈和领导交流时，要保持尊重和礼貌的态度，以体现自己的修养和素质。</p><p>31、在面对困难和挑战时，要学会寻求帮助和支持，以共同解决问题和克服困难。</p><p>32、在生活中，要学会感恩和回报他人，以体现自己的感恩之心和善良之心。</p><p 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怎么闲聊，
接不上茬，第二句第三句都接不上…… 好！！！！！！！！！！！ 顺势 成年人的城府
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