你三十岁时，仅靠自己能安身立命吗？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>李健说：就当下社会而言，如果你是一个没有背景的人，四十而立就已经很不错了。不要说什么三十而立，凡是三十岁能够立起来的人，要么就是自身太强大了，强大到可以超越99%的人。要么就是家里有背景的资助，你看看我们当下的社会，但凡三十几岁就能胜任一把手的人，有几个是靠着努力得来的？你再看看那些私人老板的企业，爹是总裁，儿子就是总经理，闺女是财务总监，剩下各个部门的关键人选，几乎也都是侄男外甥女，外人想往上爬，实在是太难。除非企业到了生死关头，而你又能救企业于水火之中，这时候不得不用你，你才有机会。</p><p>所以说，三十没立，不要灰心，因为绝大部分人和你都差不多。但是，三十岁是人生的一大分水岭，此时你或许没有得到很好的财富，但一定要对自己有清晰的认知，要认准自己要干的行业，并且能够深耕下去。</p><p>这样，四十岁，才能立得住。你个人又是如何理解、定义三十而立、或者四十而立的呢？</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FgJOv073PXuweihgERFQOjK8g-vu.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="367" height="550" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FgJOv073PXuweihgERFQOjK8g-vu.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FhTYYIUmbWwPAyKSOajpd65KXSww.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="640" height="820" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FhTYYIUmbWwPAyKSOajpd65KXSww.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable " style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FsV4ETzBE2Ez7tbv1AS-LTx-xFBF.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="640" height="820" data-qf-origin="forum/20240222150744front1_0_173446_FsV4ETzBE2Ez7tbv1AS-LTx-xFBF.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOeDn-mbqOS7u-W5s-eUn1M=/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/88/dy/10/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/100/gravity/Center/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p> <!----></div> 哎，关键四十也没立起来 反正我30岁早早就独立了 尼莫的表哥 发表于 2024-2-23 13:25哎，关键四十也没立起来
别慌，我54岁也没立起来。 现在这年景，没背景没资源，你是立也立不起来，躺也躺不平，就这么半弯着腰遭罪吧 不能。 start2988 发表于 2024-2-23 13:41
别慌，我54岁也没立起来。
我再迷糊十几年也就退休了 you have to have a skill 30的时候没老人帮忙看娃，都没办法上班
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